When Dreams Meet Reality?

 

Don't forget that you were a child too and your

child will become one day a person of your age. And as we all know, you are far away from a small sweet baby. The child is copy of you and your partner and it is it's time to become a person with it's own personality. This child is going to live its life, to have its life story, to have it's children and to become old at the end of its path. Every life has beginning and end but children are the link that connects the world of our ancestors with the future. 

Here and now we decide how to continue our lives and what our future will be. By choosing to have children, we choose a future that will be meaningful, but also much more difficult than what awaits us if we choose a path without children.

Here is the moment that you must realize that the baby you're gonna have is not gonna be baby forever, it will become child, a young person and finally and a grown up. That's why you must always consider that you are not gonna have just a baby -  this tiny sweet creature will be after that child: will pass trough different and sometimes difficult transformations and finally and hopeful, will become a grown up. Be sure that you are ready to devote your life to the children and to give them your time, your knowledge, to sacrifice almost all the time that you used to have for yourself and to forget sometimes that you exist and without the children or the child.  

So, here we can see the first mistake that future parents do as thinking and dreaming for the baby: they don't think for the baby like for a person. They see it only as this small sweet creature and their heart is melting as they imagine their heir.

And you? And do you intend to be naive or are you ready to take full responsibility for your actions, here and now? Are you ready to face the reality that awaits you?